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  • Why staying put might finally beat job hopping

  • The mindset shift that makes work part of your life, not all of it

  • 40 work boundaries that give you back 10+ hours a week

  • Grief doesn't end; it evolves (and what that means for you)

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Is Staying Put the New Power Move?

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  • As of March 2025, the average pay bump for switching jobs is 4.8% (down from previous years), meaning the financial reward for hopping is shrinking.

  • Employees who stay put are seeing a 4.6% salary increase on average.

  • With only a 0.2% difference, job hopping is starting to look like more work for less payoff. Staying might finally pay off.


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EMPLOYMENT LAW

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PERSPECTIVE SHIFTS

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Why Getting Real About Death Quietly Levels Up Your Career

Takeaways:

  • Spending even a little time with people at the end of life rearranges your priorities fast. You stop acting like you have unlimited time to chase what you want.

  • You waste fewer words. Fear shrinks. Urgency grows. When you fully grasp you're not here forever, you start living with intention instead of hesitation.

  • Our culture runs on distraction and busywork. But when your time feels finite, you stop performing for optics and start choosing what actually matters.


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WORK BOUNDARIES

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Your Time Is Not a Free-For-All

Takeaways:

  • Productivity isn't about squeezing more in. It's about protecting your time, energy, and focus so you can actually do great work.

  • Boundaries look like checking out after 6 p.m., declining meetings without agendas, and saying no to fake "ASAPs."

  • Your value isn't tied to how available you are. It's measured by the quality of what you create when you finally protect your time.


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LIFE & LOSS

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Grief Doesn't End. It Evolves.

Takeaways:

  • When you lose someone, it doesn't happen just once. You lose them again and again in small, quiet moments for as long as you live without them.

  • Learning to live with that repetition can feel unbearable unless you choose to see it through a lens of generosity and love.

  • Grief can also be gratitude in disguise, a reminder that every ache is an invitation to remember, to reach for their voice, and to celebrate that they once existed at all.


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