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Today's Checklist:

  • Holiday gifting, handled

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  • Protect your peace


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HOLIDAY GIFTING

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Don't Start Holiday Gifting Without This Checklist

I once managed a nearly $1M gifting budget for the holidays, and let's just say, it's not for the faint of heart. Between vendor delays, creative approvals, and shifting budgets, a good system is the difference between a smooth rollout and a stressful scramble.

If you're running point this season, here's how you can stay ahead of it all:

1️⃣ Start with the numbers

Decide your per-person budget and your in-hands date first.

Vendors can't help you without those two details. During the holidays, production times can easily stretch to 6–8 weeks, so plan accordingly. And don't forget to factor in taxes and shipping.

2️⃣ Match the gift to the person

Who's receiving it? That answer should guide everything.

  • Execs: high-end, branded pieces (think Yeti or Ember)

  • Team gifts: practical items with a personal touch

  • Clients: something thoughtful, neutral, and professional


Pro Tip: Start a simple spreadsheet now with names, addresses, and contact info. You'll thank yourself later.

3️⃣ Identify your decision-makers early

There's always someone who needs to "sign off." Find out who that is before you start.

Send creative proofs for review early to avoid last-minute surprises (and crooked logos).

4️⃣ Build strong vendor relationships

Ask for product decks, branding templates, and mockups upfront.

Good vendors will keep you updated and flag potential issues before they happen. (Bad ones disappear until the tracking email arrives.)

5️⃣ Don't skip the details

Always ask for samples when you can. Always get a creative proof. Always confirm tracking.

The details you check now are the emergencies you avoid later.

Tip: Every product in a gift box counts as its own project (multiply your timeline accordingly).

Or…let someone else handle the moving parts. Vendors we trust with important gifting needs:


Wishing you organized inboxes and on-time deliveries.

P.S. Need inspo? Peek at our holiday guide.

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When the Benefit Isn't Worth the Burnout

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